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Leeann's avatar

I have been with my husband for 17 years (I am only 37) I honestly have so much resentment in my head for him for so many of these reasons and I thought that the problem was me. This has really struck a cord with me and I do believe I need to change my life.

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Zoe's avatar

Alarming hit rate here. Hence upcoming divorce. Which, of course, I’m organising mediation, form filling telling the kids. Because otherwise it won’t get done. But this time, this last time, it’s also for me. Thank fuxk for no fault divorces.

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Ellen's avatar

This gave me chills because this is my ex husband to an absolute T. Every single one of them. I mean, I could've written this. It reminds me of Don Hennessy's book about abusers in which he remarks that abusive tactics are universal (I know not all manbabies would be considered to be abusers). They are the same no matter where in the world the man came from. He is also convinced they are intentional.

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