Dr Jess explains how ex-partners use the family courts to stalk and harass their victims for years on end, whilst pretending they care about their children
I could have literally ticked every paragraph you wrote, every word is literally what I’ve been saying to my advocate for 4 years now. Can I speak with you directly, how can I do this?? Thank you 🙏
This came at such a relevant time for me. I fear reporting any violations of the civil restraining order because anytime I've reported him before, the judge posits it as a "you two need to remember you once liked each other and work together for your kids." There have been two CPS cases -- not from me, but from the kids disclosing to mandated reporters all he's done to them and me. He just shot my window and the police still said it could have been someone's "loose cargo" breaking the window. It's hard not to just give up.
Even police i was told by a special police officer for domestic violence are getting ptsd from collecting all the data and paperwork for the victims just to see it evaporate in family court. This is berlin, germany.
I could have literally ticked every paragraph you wrote, every word is literally what I’ve been saying to my advocate for 4 years now. Can I speak with you directly, how can I do this?? Thank you 🙏
This came at such a relevant time for me. I fear reporting any violations of the civil restraining order because anytime I've reported him before, the judge posits it as a "you two need to remember you once liked each other and work together for your kids." There have been two CPS cases -- not from me, but from the kids disclosing to mandated reporters all he's done to them and me. He just shot my window and the police still said it could have been someone's "loose cargo" breaking the window. It's hard not to just give up.
Men can go through this too
Even police i was told by a special police officer for domestic violence are getting ptsd from collecting all the data and paperwork for the victims just to see it evaporate in family court. This is berlin, germany.
Very little chance of proving any of the cyberstalking .
Significant chance of her being diagnosed as delusional and her mental health becoming a flagged concern to agencies .